We are all surrounded by people. We work with them, we socialize with them daily. We also need a break from them and traveling solo seems to be a perfect way to know yourself better, leave your comfort zone and go into the wild, get to know other people, hike, dance, learn to cook, smile, talk to strangers, eat new food and see the sunrise on the beach.
“I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person.”
Oscar Wilde
Wise words. Being alone on the road gives you an opportunity to gain valuable experience about the world, people, food, foreign customs and traditions.
You stop being ignorant and start appreciating things you might have never noticed. You open your heart. You become more of a listener than speaker.
Why should we all travel solo at least once a year?
Most of “steady Eddy” people can’t imagine themselves traveling on their own so they always take their friends with them, partners or join the organised group trips.
Why?
There are many reasons such as It’s scary! I don’t want to feel lonely! I need a buddy to have a beer with! Who would take pictures of me!? (that’s me).
Nevertheless, traveling solo is getting more and more common as it can be a lot of fun and more unique experience for adventure hunters.
Actually, the advantages of traveling solo are enormous.
#1 Learn more about yourself. Discover yourself
Once you set off on a solo journey to unknown place, you start getting to know yourself much better.
You are on your own.
You start listening to your heart and you are finally able to achieve some level of internal equilibrium and focus of mind.
You start to discover yourself once again – things you are capable of, things you are afraid or scared of. You face your fears and you defeat them.
There is no stress around and you feel alive.
#2 Make new friends & speak to strangers
When we travel with companions, we tend to stick to that group of people and even though we try our best to get to know new people, the dynamics and interactions will certainly not be as deep and fulfilling.
I’ve noticed that when I am on my own on the road, I’m definitely more eager to chat with locals, meet travel buddies, team up with other travelers and generally reach out more in order to socialize. It seems so natural.
Traveling solo definitely enables you to speak directly to some locals and stop being shy with people. In this way, you can make new friend and gain valuable insider knowledge about wherever you are.
#3 Experience new things
When you travel solo, people are more open and direct with you. Thus, you can experience more new things than you would when traveling with someone.
People will invite you home and welcome you warmly in their place. They will share everything they have with you, sometimes giving you more than they possess.
You will notice their smile and small gestures you often ignore when traveling with someone else by your side.
#4 Freedom. Peace. Flexibility
It is better to travel alone than with a bad companion.
When you travel on your own, you are definitely more flexible with time, next destination and decisions you make.
You team up with travel buddies you like the most and end up expanding your travel plans.
You are free to change your plans whenever you want to.
You are free to sleep as long as you want to.
You can hitchhike, hike, dance on the beach, change your destination at last minute without stress and compromises.
When you travel, you are open to change and you will welcome it with open arms. No more fitting into a group’s agenda.
No more explanations or disappointing anyone. You just follow rhythm, heart and mind.
#5 Loneliness? What’s that?
In fact, when traveling solo, you will never feel lonely. Once you get to any hostel or hotel and you will see plenty of solo travelers who are in the same boat.
You all travel for the same reasons, you all miss home at some point and you all want to experience new things. It is incredible to see how much you have in common with people who you have not met before.
You get to know each other, you make friends and keep in touch. We meet once again after some time in a different place and you all laugh at all of these awkward and unforgettable moments you shared together.
#6 Overcome your fears & challenge your insecurities
What does not kill you, makes you stronger and that’s so true. When you are left on your own, you start fighting for what really matters to you.
You overcome the fear of heights, darkness, spiders or even new food. The more you travel, the less you fear. As long as you make regular solo trips, you will feel more confident each time, no matter what your fear is which is also a good excuse to travel regularly.
Pro tip: while pushing your boundaries and going beyond what you’re comfortable is highly encouraged and will most likely benefit you in the long run, there are some risks you are going to face. Try not to face them unprepared. Consider a Travel Insurance!
#7 Indulge in anything you want without being judged
Without a doubt, eating is one of the most enjoyable aspects of travel. Be it street food or in a restaurant. Once you start traveling solo, you also start appreciating food more and you will end up eating things that you would normally not eat at home.
You become more adventurous with food. You can finally take in all the Thai pad thai, Italian pizza, Belgian macaroons and Chinese dumplings you find on your travels if you so desire without worrying about other people noticing!
#8 Save money
In most cases, you can find traveling solo cheaper than traveling with someone.
Why?
Nobody teases you with local delicacies so it is easier to resist the temptation and spend less money on food (my case). You are also more likely to buy less souvenirs and useless gadgets.
More importantly, your travel companion might prefer more convenient and expensive way of traveling and it’s sometimes awkward to say “Sorry, it’s too expensive for me”.
#9 Gain confidence
When you travel solo you might face various problems, make decisions and even take some risk on your own.
All these situations will, with no doubts, make you stronger, braver and much more confident though.
Being alone on the road is a great challenge and as we know the challenges make us grow stronger and wiser not only as travelers but also as human-beings.
When traveling on your own you can learn many skills such as time management and decision making.
#10 No drama
How many times did you argue with your travel buddies?
How many times did you have to meet him/her half-way?
If things do not go well, the entire trip can be a miserable, drama-filled time you’d love to forget. There is no drama when you travel on your own. No arguments. No fights.
To sum up, we should not be scared to set off for a solo journey!
For some people it might be a tough decision and a weird feeling for the first days of solo expedition, but at the end of the day you will not regret it as it’s much more adventurous and challenging, it shapes your personality and gives you enormous possibilities to test yourself.
Have you ever travelled solo? How beneficial was it for you?
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Im travelling solo for the first time right now and lovvvviiinnnggg it. Couldnt agree more with everything you said!
That’s so wonderful! Keep it up!
I’m totally yours and Oscar Wilde’s opinion. The quote is perfect. And I really think that everyone should try to travel alone as he said, it’s important to be able to be alone. Just yesterday I talked to a friend who wants to hike the Camino and she said the first reaction she almost always receives is: “And you want to do it alone?” “Didn’t you find anyone to do it with you?” and we were just discussing the same topic. I mean you hike for 6 weeks, I think that’s the toughest thing to do with another person. you need the same pace, you share all ups and downs, I mean it can help at times, but 6 weeks 24/7? This hike is supposed to be done for reflections and isn’t that best done when having time for yourself?
Of course he was right. Everyone should at least try to be alone or travel solo!
All these points are so true, Agness. There’s really nothing quite as empowering as travelling by yourself. It’s something I definitely want to do more of in the coming years. I made the two biggest moves in my life solo (moving to Australia and Canada) and I grew as a person so much from doing these things, especially as I did them alone. The thing about travelling solo is, I tend to find you don’t spend much time solo! It’s so easy to meet people to travel with on the road, so people shouldn’t worry about feeling lonely.
Totally agree Charlie!
Charlie, thank you for sharing your story and experience. Moving to Australia and Canada must have been a huge move for you. Well done!!
You know there’s a new trendy thing called the selfie stick, right? The “Who would take pictures of me!?” problem is no longer a problem :D
LOL! Haven’t heard of that :).
Great list! Travelling alone does give you such freedom. I love that quote from Oscar Wild. :)
Yes, freedom is precious.
There are definitely pros and cons to being a solo traveler. I often like to do what I want, when I want. You don’t have to abide by anyone’s rules. And it’s so true that you learn so much about yourself!
I absolutely agree, Priya!
This is WONDERFUL! I completely agree. I used to only travel solo (I didn’t want to risk ruining my trip by going with someone who might argue/spend too much/be annoying).
Thankfully, my husband travels incredibly well. He’s just as cheap as me and we have basically all the same interests, so we’ve never fought while travelling (mostly because he just lets me run the show and tags along).
But every once and a while, I like to go on small trips by myself. It’s very relaxing and fun.
Good for you for writing this!!!
I love you advice (as always)
I’m so glad you had a chance to travel solo!
You are so lucky that your husband is such a great travel companion. Keep it up!!
I can only agree with everything you have written, Agness and I love the two quotes. Even though I have a boyfriend for many years, I need to travel on my own at least once a year to clear my mind and to spend alone outside of my comfort zone. I started travelling solo more than 20 years ago and without this “Me-Time” every once in a while I would probably be a totally different person.
Thanks Vanessa!!!
I agree with every single one of these things. I don’t think I would choose to do another 4 1/2 month trip unless I was single and unattached, but I will definitely continue to travel solo for shorter periods of time. I love the freedom that it gives you!
Thank you Mandie!!
I loooove travelling by myself. No fights over the AC, you can do whatever you want. You meet more new people. Etc etc. Everyone should do it at least once in their lifetime.
I agree – you definitely meet more people when travelling solo!! :D
Great reasons to travel solo :) I love solo travel because it challenges me and surprises me. I’ve met some amazing people and great friends by going solo and I can’t wait for my next solo journey :)
Great post Agness :). Right now, I’m still a little scared to travel solo or do thing by myself, but I’m sure that will come with more experience! I do really like the idea of solo travel (especially when I fight with D on the road!), mainly because you can do whatever the hell you want, and eat whatever you want to eat!! We do talk about trying solo travel sometime in the future. :)
“Indulge without being judged” and “No drama” are so so true!! I like travelling with friends but I LOVE travelling alone! I experience so so much more!!! All of my best trips have been solo :)
Once again, a really great post Agness. :)
Yes, I’ve travelled solo especially when I graduated. I did 6 months around Asia. I went to live in Eastern Europe. I went to India and Vietnam. I”ve done most of Europe. All solo. Some of the best times of my life. Now that I’m married, of course, I travel with my family but from time-to-time, I take a long weekend and travel solo in order to grease the buds of independent thinking, challenges, and difficulties. It’s always a good feeling and I have a great husband who is supportive and understands when my feet begin to itch! :)
I’m about to go on my first solo trip (a road trip from Ohio to Washington), and I can’t wait! Sure, it’ll be a bit nerve-wracking since I’m moving, and not just vacationing…but the thought of having 4 whole days to myself to do what I want sounds refreshing!
What a great news! Enjoy it Heather!
WOW… Your post TOTALLY inspired me, in the back of my mind lately I have been thinking that I need to do something, I need to break out of the confines of the day to day I am living, grow, learn, discover me. I went to the States for 5 months a few years ago, it was truly one of the BesT experiences I have ever had. Its all about you. :)
Fab post, I am going to start planning my next solo adventure.
Travelling solo sounds great if you look at it the right way. I’ve never really travelled solo, not out of choice, just out of circumstance, but I’d be really keen to do so (especially in Europe). I think you can learn a lot from travelling solo.
The only drawback I really see is that I love hiking (as does my partner) but sometimes we hike in really quite dangerous places, and I’m not a very good climber, so doing it on my own wouldn’t be that safe and I wouldn’t be that confident to do it either.
you’re right: it is very imortant to spent time alone. But I couldn’t do it for a year. Of course you meet new people and make frieds, but it is never the same with your “stable” friends and your family, because by travelling you are always on the go and you know that you will leave soon. I prefer to travel with a familiar or a friend (if it is for a year). so you are able to share and remember your experience :) But that’s my opinion…
I couldn’t agree more with this! My partner and I make a point of travelling solo once every so often just to experience some things alone. Sometimes it’s nice to just have one agenda and one person’s wants to fulfil and it opens some amazing opportunities :).
The drama, so true! You have to be really lucky to find people who share a similar travel attitude, which is one of the reasons why I like traveling alone.